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Are YOU interested in Pharmacy? Because what I'm hearing is "she says....she says....she says.....her family says....."

I strongly advise you both to sit down and hash this out. Does she truly understand that this means putting off having a family? -- or is she actually secretly thinking that if she juuuuust haaaaappens to get pregnant (oops!) God will provide? Does she truly understand that she alone will be the major breadwinner? Has she ever lived with someone who is studying for an advanced degree -- does she truly understand the toll it takes on a relationship? -- do you? (Ask my husband about the toll it takes...we survived, but it took a lot of compromises, and there were many periods of bitterness and anger, and feeling that one or the other was unfairly shouldering the burden, etc.)

If Pharmacy is your dream, and you've got a supportive partner, then go for it! If you're only choosing it because your wife's family has a nice house and a nice car, and heck any idiot can count pills and put them in a bottle, then perhaps you should rethink your career direction.

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